You just got engaged. You have made all the calls announcing your engagement to friends, family, pets, and maybe even the mail man, but what do you do now? First of all, let it sink in. Enjoy your engagement! You're about to embark on one of life's most joyous events, something you've been thinking about since you first saw J. Lo in The Wedding Planner, your wedding. Fact of the matter is that, just like picking a college, you would be happy with a number of different weddings. With that in mind, take your time looking through blogs filled with pictures of other people's weddings. We recommend Ruffled, a blog that allows you to look up weddings that have just occurred in your area. Ruffled offers pictures of all types of weddings, from a modern Tampa wedding to an artsy San Diego wedding and even rustic New England weddings. You can also find professional photographers in your region by scrolling through the various wedding galleries. So much can be learned through simply looking through pictures of other people's weddings. So, take a breath and enjoy exploring!